Its like drinking sambuca...its nice when u start. But when u get up next morning and then u say to urself...never ever again. She will never leg a black cock near her again.
I think that it depends a lot on the woman more then the man, I had sex with a Latina who was fit and petite and she could not handle my cock even though mine is just average size I would say. She tapped out repeatedly and said that it hurt her a lot, she braved it in the end and enjoyed herself but I think that she was the way that you described it, she liked a thick big cock taking her roughly but didn't know how to handle it. The next day she was walking funny and said that I had fucked her too hard the night before but she still wanted more