I was 15 or 16 whan a guy stopped to pick me up while hitch hiking. I got in and after a few minutes he asked if i would suck his cock. He was surprised when i said yes, then he pulled off the road and i blew him. He shot a pretty big load an d swallowed it all. I hitch hiked a lot after that
My method was to purposefully use my teeth when sucking and accidentally choke while sucking to make the older guy think I was inexperienced. In the extremely rare case I bottomed for an older guy, my asshole is smaller and I have a tendency to tear during intercourse, which brings forth a little crimson fluid that further convinces the person that I’m cherry. It worked well into my 30s.
Quite an analysis and it rings true. As a youth I remembered how much the first guy I sucked off liked knowing he was first. I didn't analyze it but felt intuitively it was sexy. I told a few men they were the first because I found their cock irresistible. It did seem to stimulate them to cum hard in my mouth.
You have to understand the psychology of it all, guys enjoy it if the person sucking them actually finds their penis attractive and desires their genitals. The sharing of the flesh with the same gender plus the fact that the person will be swallowing your cum adds to that explosive eroticism. And the dirty talk helps, but I've found most guys don't want to hear the cocksucker/fag type of commentary, they really get off on hearing how good their penis tastes, feels, smells, etc. Even if you have to act it up a little as the bottom and pretend you're new at it all and mesmerized just holding his penis, you do what you have to so that the person has the orgasm of their life. They WILL remember you and how you took their flesh and fluid into their body and will become masturbation fodder for decades to come.
I love everything from your little adventure, sweetie. And everything that your top said is so true. Your top sounds insightful, treasure him. I would just add that cum is OUR reward as cocksuckers, our prize after the "job", and that every drop should be savored, don't you think?